Many parents feel overwhelmed by their highly active children. Many children are immediately labeled "naughty" because they find it hard to stay still, move around a lot, or often make noise. However, an active child doesn't necessarily have problematic behavior.
Being active is a normal part of a child's development, especially during toddlerhood and childhood. However, it's important for parents to understand the normal limits of their child's activity and when further evaluation is necessary.
It's Normal for Children to be Active
Children are naturally curious. They learn through play, movement, and exploration of their surroundings. Therefore, behaviors such as:
- Running here and there
- Ask a lot of questions
- Difficulty sitting still for too long
- Enjoy climbing or trying new things
This is a common occurrence in children according to their developmental age.
The Difference Between Active Children and Behaviors That Need to be Watched Out For
Active children can usually still be directed, focus on activities they enjoy, and are able to follow simple rules appropriate to their age.
However, parents need to be more alert if their child shows signs such as:
- It is very difficult to concentrate in various situations.
- Excessive impulsiveness and difficult to control
- Excessive activity that interferes with daily activities
- Difficulty following simple instructions consistently
- Experiencing learning or social interaction disorders
This condition may be related to certain developmental disorders and requires further evaluation by a doctor.
Factors Influencing Children's Activity
Every child has a different personality and energy level. Some factors that can influence a child's behavior include:
- Age and developmental stage
- Sleep patterns
- Dietary habit
- Environment and parenting
- Excessive exposure to gadgets
- Child's emotional condition
Therefore, it is important to look at a child's behavior as a whole, not just from one particular situation.
The Role of Parents in Accompanying Active Children
Parents can help channel their children's energy in positive ways, such as:
- Provide active play time
- Inviting children to exercise
- Create a regular routine
- Provide consistent rules
- Limit gadget use according to age
The right approach helps children learn to control their emotions and behavior gradually.
When Should You Consult a Doctor?
Consult a pediatrician immediately if:
- Child's behavior begins to interfere with school or social activities
- Children have difficulty focusing for long periods of time
- Parents find it difficult to control their children's behavior
- There are other developmental delays
Early examination can help find the cause and determine the appropriate treatment.
Every child is unique and develops in their own way.
An active child doesn't necessarily mean naughty. With proper guidance and understanding, parents can help their children grow into healthy, confident individuals who develop optimally for their age.
Article written by Dr. Ajeng Indriastari, Sp.A (Pediatrician, EMC Pekayon Hospital).